Dug this up from my archive and can finally share it, distanced as I am now from feeling this way. The sentiment, however, still rings true:
They tell me to give him space. To let him miss me. To focus on myself and to ignore... which will only make him want me more. Because distance makes the heart grow fonder....
Only the thing is, distance actually creates more distance. The more you push someone away, the farther they go. Unfortunately, it doesn't work in reverse -- the more you cling, the less they love you. Some of these tactics might work for attraction, but I'm not entirely sure there's a game plan for love.
Sometimes we just have to accept that love is fleeting. By the luck of fate, it just happens to flee when I am at the height of being in love, when I want the most, when I can finally begin to see a future together.
In this blog I want to explore issues related to BDSM and non-traditional sexual relationships. I don’t want to judge or teach, just discuss, reflect, bring up my own questions and concerns. This will be a place where I attempt to delve deeper into the psychological underpinnings of desire, to examine different points of view, review books, other websites, movies and events. I will try to do this with as much of an open mind as possible, analyzing my own reactions and questioning my assumptions.
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